The divorce of celebs is the typical headline for online and paper news. We often get more surprised with famous people living in a long and peaceful marriage than quitting their relationships in a short while. So, what is the reason for such unfortunate outcomes? Is that the gold diggers following famous people, or the cause lies deeper in the couple’s relationships? Read on to discover more about celebrities getting married and divorced.
The Rich Difference
Since most of the famous obtain quite a fortune, it is no wonder they live in a completely different way than the average couple. It is not only about the level of seriousness in marriage and divorce (like that of Kanye West), but the financial aspect as one of the primary reasons.
When it comes to problems with relationships, an average married couple will think twice before filing for divorce. They will count whether they can afford the lawyer, documents for divorce, additional expenses, living on personal income only, and many other details. They will also consider cheaper options such as relationship counsellors, mediators, legal separation, and so on.
On the contrary, celebs tend to easily get divorced on a minor whim and not care about anything. They can afford to spend a fortune on a posh wedding or humiliating divorce with little remorse. Social and financial status has a great effect on the way people treat things and events in their life. As well as marriage may be a holy thing for one person, it may be treated as another simple event to gossip about for a celebrity. So, it is no wonder for some celebrities to get divorced so easily.
Real Personality Revealed
We all associate actors with the roles they are playing, singers with the image they are presenting. But we never know what their real personalities are. This may be an obstacle to a happy marriage.
Celebs’ partners may marry the alter-ego and get disappointed when the natural person is revealed. Super fathers on the screen may even not want children, neat businessmen from the company billboard may wear stinky socks, the romantic singer may turn out to be a nasty person. People easily get disappointed in their partners, images they seemed to fit, and marriage in general. Some couples may have the strength to overcome the difficulties and come to an agreement. But we see that the famous tend to prefer a divorce as a solution for significant relationship issues. They can afford to quit the wrong partnership and move on in search of a more suitable partner without much care and fuss, so why not?
Celebrities often have a busy schedule which can ruin the family eventually. Actors are starring in different places around the country, singers often set on a world tour, models participate in different events one after another. Besides, any celebs should always be visible and look appropriate in front of the paparazzi. This means they have neither time nor the possibility to stay home, nurture their relationships, and care about family. And not every family can put up with a mother or father being around only several days or weeks a year. Or a partner trying to suit a public image more than to please their kids and partner.
It is proven that a couple with only one partner being famous can easier cope with a busy schedule of a celeb. This way, another partner can follow their soulmate or adjust the lifestyle for both partners to feel comfortable. But when both partners are famous and head opposite directions with every next tour, project, or audition, they soon grow apart and end their relationships with divorce.
Famous people need to be very strong and confident in their relationships since they often face temptation. They are literally granted an opportunity to cheat on their partners on a regular basis. Kisses in film shooting, half-naked models around, sexual dances, fans throwing themselves at celebs. All these may complicate being in relationships in general, staying loyal, nurturing family life. Besides, paparazzi may only add to the family problems, exaggerating gossip and posting fraudulent information.
There is a high rate of famous marriages end up because of cheating with a person from the workplace, being caught in an ambiguous situation by paparazzi, or just ruining the family life because of a whim or temptation. Additionally, it often happens that an affair at the workplace is not a matter of temptation only, but also the point of related souls, lifestyles, and values. Due to all this, famous people often find it easier to quit the marriage than sort out the argument and explain something to their partners.
Another reason for divorce being a common thing for famous people is an outer influence. Since they are always in the camera’s scope, celebs try to fit a particular image and tendencies, people of their league follow. Being independent and self-confident, appearing in the center of intrigues and scandals, having a short but bright marriage. Depending on what is trending among other celebs determines the lifestyle of famous couples. So, there is no wonder that celebrities get divorced without serious reason frequently.
As one can see, it is not a novelty for a celebrity to get divorced after a couple of months or years as a family. The reasons may differ the same way as for average marriage. Whether they don’t treat the marriage seriously, don’t bother about money to spend on divorce, seem to be a completely different person, don’t pay enough time to family life due to busy schedules, follow temptation and cheat on a partner, try to fit the environment and trends more than build up a happy marriage. The list can go on and on. It is true that in some countries celebs get divorced up to twice more often than other couples. Still, they don’t do it out of the blue, and every case may be unique and have serious reasons. So never misjudge any soon-to-divorce couple, no matter their social status, until the real causes of their decision are revealed.